Reddit aita flower girl OP clearly loves their niece. I told her yes, my dog will be the flower girl who's been living with me and my fiancé for seven years. Two years ago, when I graduated from my Master's program, she didn't attend because she was on a retreat with her then-fiancé. 22 votes, 39 comments. For the last 2+ years Kelly has been really flaky a Me (f29) and my STBH (m33) are getting married soon. My daughter was 5, was 'head flower girl' SIL two nieces were also flower girls, a little younger, like 3/4. She will not feel valued in your married home. She could have broken the news a lot kinder to the girl instead of a big "announcement" in front of everyone, when the child was expecting something way different. The fact that it was framed to her as, "You can choose not to be a flower girl anymore" was, in fact, a very clever move on your mother's part to give a small child the FEELING of control rather than saying, "You will not be ALLOWED to be a flower girl if you won't wear this colour", which would result in the same end, but could also very well 590K subscribers in the TwoHotTakes community. When you exchange vows, bend down and tell her that you pledge to not just be her father’s wife, but also her mother. hntgzryebnhirtsdldbclskdcckbcmakkkzsrfdpsqsfxxctoxerxfjwtjoeownbwwqagylc